tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post3211913209859081934..comments2023-04-07T04:33:49.773-07:00Comments on CODA Giving Girl: A Crappy Codependent Valentines WeekendGGhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03638098556879627693noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-20722506778177262642009-02-21T08:24:00.000-08:002009-02-21T08:24:00.000-08:00Men suck. I was supposed to have some "adult time"...Men suck. <BR/><BR/>I was supposed to have some "adult time" last night and the guy bailed. <BR/><BR/>Gah.....this is what I get for trying to dip my toes into the dating pool once again. <BR/><BR/>No wonder I quit dating years ago. <BR/><BR/>It just never changes.Mama Dawghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16056327117924455147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-33539085818248011822009-02-18T14:08:00.000-08:002009-02-18T14:08:00.000-08:00I think you're a lot stronger than you give yourse...I think you're a lot stronger than you give yourself credit for. Remember why you're staying away from him everytime you get the urge. I read your blog and you're an inspiration to me so if I can be of any help just let me know. It's about the only thing I'm good at now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-57462419339768742242009-02-16T19:47:00.000-08:002009-02-16T19:47:00.000-08:00Bella, I am doing the lockdown. He already e-mail...Bella, I am doing the lockdown. He already e-mailed me in response to an e-mail from me earlier in the day telling him I couldn't continue in this relationship. Of course he turned it around and said I ruined the weekend by reacting to his "I didn't do anything" statement Friday night. But ultimately that was just a nail in the coffin of many things that make this not a good fit. So now I just need to be strong and remember why I'm doing this. That, my friends, will be the hard part.GGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03638098556879627693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-33408448762185375672009-02-16T19:18:00.000-08:002009-02-16T19:18:00.000-08:00oh...:( I am sorry... the flower and card thing wa...oh...:( I am sorry... the flower and card thing was a little disturbing I have to admit.Dark Cloud Ninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02958348600372118224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-62117405962231262242009-02-16T16:41:00.000-08:002009-02-16T16:41:00.000-08:00Do what my girls and I call love lock down. Lock i...Do what my girls and I call love lock down. Lock it ALL down. No sex, no phone calls, emails... close shop. I'm sure it's easier said than done giving the whole co dependancy thing, but you have to take into consideration that you maybe teaching your son to just settle for whatevers in front of him instead of showing how to seek happiness that YOU DESERVE. This guy's an insensitive asshole and if you don't stand for something you'll fall for anything...put your big girl undies on and step up your grown woman status. You seem to just settle for less and that's not what you want for yourself or you son. If it's sex you're concerned out you should take into consideration that there is d*ck all over the place and you'd be surprised at how good it will be with someone that truly gives a damn....good luck with everything.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-43022259147657261712009-02-16T12:10:00.000-08:002009-02-16T12:10:00.000-08:00Wow. That stung.Wow. That stung.https://www.blogger.com/profile/10112766306021310705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7948293962244938814.post-51004420792313459592009-02-16T10:02:00.000-08:002009-02-16T10:02:00.000-08:00Sad to hear it.Sad to hear it.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.com